my life

friendship...

hahax.. now suddenly got the feeling to blog something chim.. wahahax.. something sophicated.. wahahax.. jokin onli.. budden lately many things struck mi alot.. a lot of thinking is going thru my mind.. one very important thing that has struck mi recently is about friendship..

saw a post on my colleague caseline's blog.. realised wat she said was very true.. many a times ppl take friendship for granted.. i do also.. actually, i did it all the time when i was in jc.. i took friendship for granted and realli din appreciate my classmates.. in the end i realli lost alot of friends becos of this..

now, i realli have a new perception towards friendship liao le.. in short, i believe there is onli one word to summarise so many things i wanna say.. friendship is realli up to CHOICE.. its realli the choice of one to whether he or she would like to maintain contact or not with his or her friends.. its up to choice whether one wants to treat his or her frends truthfully or putting on a facade..

my very junior once told mi this: " friendship is something juz like a kite.. we cannot hold onto it too tightly nor can we hold onto it too loosely.. it will either snap or juz drift away".. i think wat he said made a lot of sense to mi.. at that time when he was saying this to mi i was at the bottom of a deep valley.. my mood was down to the extreme.. but wat he said realli brought mi up from the bottom and give mi a lot of encouragement.. hahax..

to say, i have lost many precious friendships cauz of the person i am.. i'm a very hasty person and i am a very straight forward person.. i dun like to hide my feelings.. and wat i say often will offend ppl.. thats becos i had nv thought that others are also sensitive like myself.. thats why now i try to be as sensitive to others de feelings as much as possible.. even if i have to realli say something i dislike, i have to try to put it in a way others are able to accept.. hahax.. this is something i had learn thru the course of JC.. and thru the course of great hardships..

now, i am realli grateful to have many many frends still ard mi.. and i am glad to be able to noe more and more frends thru my work.. hahax.. mainly they are my colleagues.. they are realli a bunch of fun and interesting ppl to work with and i enjoy the times that i spent with them.. thats why i decided to join service after promoter in the first place.. i am realli glad to be able to relate with some of them and alwaes go out have fun and chill out when we got our day off.. wahahax.. hopefully we will still have chances to have fun together though some of them are leaving very soon..

i guess i will stop here ba.. think i might juz start crapping somewhere.. wahahax.. budden before i go i think i will end off with a quote my sec skl frend mentioned before.. "friends are like stars.. u can't see them all the time but u noe they are alwaes there.." wahahax.. leave here for ppl who sees this post to ponder about.. wahahax.. flying off!!! =)